Q. I created a Uniform Transfers to Minors Account for my son a few years ago, and it is now worth about $80,000. My son has no idea about the account, but I know he is legally entitled to the funds when he turns 21 later this year. I realize it's not exactly legal to put the $80,000 back in my name, but I don't want him to get the funds because I have a suspicion it will be spent in a matter of weeks. Is there anything legal I can do to maintain control of the account and keep him from having full access at age 21?
A. There are two realistic options available to you.
For starters, you could invest the $80,000 in a limited partnership controlled by you. When your son reaches age 21, he will not receive the $80,000, but instead will become the owner of a limited partner interest. As a limited partner, his rights can be severely restricted, thereby allowing you to control the funds for as long as the limited partnership exists. The limited partnership agreement can be written so that your son has no right to demand a distribution or veto your investment decisions.
One of the downsides to creating a limited partnership is that you are introducing a bit of complexity into your life. Many people find this type of business arrangement too complicated for their tastes. Also, the fees to set up a limited partnership can be costly. And once the limited partnership exists, you will need to file annual income tax returns to report the partnership's income to the IRS.
Not only that, but many people create a corporation or limited liability company to serve as the limited partnership's general partner. If you choose to create this additional entity, the fees to form and maintain the limited partnership arrangement will be even higher.
A word of caution: Your son may be the type to hire a lawyer to represent his best interests. If he does, it is possible--although highly unlikely--that your son might sue you to recover any funds you have placed in a limited partnership which limits his rights. In theory, your son would have a compelling argument. After all, most people would agree that receiving $80,000 in stocks and cash is better than receiving a limited partnership interest with all the associated restrictions.
Another option is to tell your son about the existence of the account, but make it clear that he would be making a huge mistake by not letting you continue to control the funds. If he puts up too big a fuss and demands the money, you can modify your estate plan and completely cut him out as a beneficiary of your estate. There is nothing illegal about you managing your son's investments for him, assuming he has the right to ask for the money at any time.
Q. I set up custodial funds in my children's names to pay their college expenses, with me as custodian. The mutual funds I invested in have done so well that the accounts far exceed what they'll need for college. Can I legally give money from these funds back to myself? If so, how?
A. No, even though there is nobody to stop you from giving the money back to yourself, doing so would be illegal. Gifts to custodial accounts are irrevocable.
If you were to return the funds to yourself, your children would have the right to sue you, and they would probably win. Of course, they would probably never know what you did, and most kids don't sue their parents (especially if they think there may be a lot more money to come one day).
Fortunately, you can start spending the money in the custodial account on things for your children which you may now be paying out of your own funds. For instance, if one of your children wants to spend the summer studying in France or if one of your children needs a new car, use the money in the custodial account to pay for these expenses, not your own money.